I sent my boyfriend's Mom some flowers & she didn't say Thank You ... Should I call her and ask her WHY??

I posted a question some time ago 4 advice where my boyfriend %26amp; I had a nasty argument %26amp; said things to hurt each other. I hit %26quot;below the belt%26quot; %26amp; made insulting comments about his mom %26amp; son. This was 3-4 weeks ago. Things have been tense with us since. He hasn%26#039;t been calling me but I sent xmas gifts to him anyway %26amp; I sent his Mom flowers. I requested %26quot;same day%26quot; delivery (which would be yesterday) but I didn%26#039;t get confirmation until TODAY that she got the flowers yesterday @ 4pm. Now I%26#039;m wondering why neither of them called to say Thank You? I%26#039;m also wondering if his Mom knows about the argument we had where I said bad things about her %26amp; maybe that%26#039;s why I didn%26#039;t get a THANK YOU for flowers I sent. I asked by boyfriend back then if he told his Mom about the argument, he told me %26quot;No%26quot;, that he doesn%26#039;t discuss his personal biz with his Mom. I%26#039;m wondering if he lied %26amp; told her what happened %26amp; that%26#039;s why I haven%26#039;t heard a Thank you. I want to CALL HER %26amp; ask but something%26#039;s telling me not to.

I sent my boyfriend%26#039;s Mom some flowers %26amp; she didn%26#039;t say Thank You ... Should I call her and ask her WHY??
Don%26#039;t call - pretty sure she knows about the remarks you made in the %26quot;heat of the moment%26quot;. Just let it be.
Reply:as much as you want to find out , do not call her, give her sometime.. if she calls, then you%26#039;ll feel a lot better. But if she doesn%26#039;t call, then you know how she feels toward you( might be forgetful too)
Reply:may take some time - - u can always call and ask %26quot;did u get the flowers?%26quot; but, don%26#039;t ask why there was no thank you.


unfortuately some people are just like that.


u made a nice effort.
Reply:Don%26#039;t call! This could make things worse if he did tell her. You know that you did the right thing. So don%26#039;t let it bother you if she doesn%26#039;t thank you.
Reply:it will be better for you to ask her for reasons than to keep it in you.
Reply:Don%26#039;t ask anything. To forgive is divine. Please, forgive her.
Reply:you can call her and ask how%26#039;s she but DON%26#039;T ASK WHY SHE HASN%26#039;T THANKED YOU
Reply:no, dont call. i would leave well enough alone.
Reply:Don%26#039;t call right away, your probably right that he did tell his mother when people are angry they say things that they shouldn%26#039;t and because you hit below the belt the chances are he would have said something to her. Wait a little bit longer and if you don%26#039;t get the thank you call from his mother then you know for sure he told her. Call her in a couple of days and ask her if she got her gifts. Then you%26#039;ll get your answers then. Good luck and next time think before you speak ok . Happy holidays
Reply:I would keep quiet, back away and stay out of thie situation. Let them make the next move towards thank you.


I nothing happens, then it is pretty clear how the other side feels here
Reply:Don%26#039;t call. If she wants to be a jerk, let her. But don%26#039;t make things worse.
Reply:Mabey he is lieing he might of told her!! Was u and her ok before the argument or did yall tlk it all depends.Call her and tlk to her but dont ask her why she didnt say thank you%26gt;Ask her if she liked the flowers then it might get on the subject just follow ur instinct i hope it works out!!!!%26gt;!%26gt;!%26gt;!%26gt;!





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Reply:don%26#039;t call. that would not be appropriate. Boy friend, every body has disagreements. Learn first to control the tongue when angry, then


at the right time, go for a soda and/or coffee the two of you and talk about it. Talk it out and apologoze if necessary and you were in the wrong. When some day you marry, you can%26#039;t just sling insults, talk about it civil.



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